Good morning andÂ thank you for today’s Letter to Jil.
I learn a great deal from your letters. Today, this phrase jumped out at me, “Youâ€™re in love with the idea of loving him. You donâ€™t love himâ€. Â I’ve often wondered how to differentiate between the two. How do I know I love the person and not just the idea? People have often said “you will know”. Â Is thisÂ true?
Youâ€™ll know if you find that you can easily substitute him for another man.