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From Jil

Do I or do I not Love him?

Good morning and thank you for today’s Letter to Jil.

I learn a great deal from your letters. Today, this phrase jumped out at me, “You’re in love with the idea of loving him. You don’t love him”.  I’ve often wondered how to differentiate between the two. How do I know I love the person and not just the idea? People have often said “you will know”.  Is this true?



From LA

Dear Jil,

You’ll know if you find that you can easily substitute him for another man.

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