I read one of your Jack and Jil series which focused on lust. I find myself in a similar situation. Though I’ve never had sex but I’ve had every other thing with so many guys, over five guys. I feel so dirty. Though I’ve stayed away from such acts for a while,Â I feel emotionally weak. I can fall at any time. Sir what can I do to help myself?
Dear Jil, you just need to control yourself and the way to do that is to control your thoughts and the stuff you are exposed to. If you consume porn for example it will make you want to have sex. You have to keep renewing your mind with the word of God. And donâ€™t put yourself in a compromising situation. As per feeling dirty, just ask God to forgive you and to cleanse you from all unrighteousness. Once you tell God youâ€™re sorry heâ€™ll forgive. If the feeling of condemnation persists itâ€™s just Satan the accuser on your case. Ignore him. God is not condemning you.