Hello Uncle Leke,Â I read your letter to Jil on physical attraction and it was really insightful. However my problem is that I am not attracted to anyone. What I mean is of course I get attracted to someone but it never lasts long.
I think I have an issue. Most times the attraction dies down and I get irritated. This has happened time after time, relationship after relationship. I do not know what to do.
I am currently in a relationship and I have no attraction to the guy. I don’t know what to do. Please help me.
Dear Jil, you canâ€™t base a relationship on physical attraction. It never lasts. You base it on values and character. Even if you date the most handsome man youâ€™ll get used to it. And if you donâ€™t want to date someone donâ€™t date the person. Itâ€™s your life, itâ€™s your choice.