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From Jil

I’m not Attracted to Him

Hello Uncle Leke, I read your letter to Jil on physical attraction and it was really insightful. However my problem is that I am not attracted to anyone. What I mean is of course I get attracted to someone but it never lasts long.

I think I have an issue. Most times the attraction dies down and I get irritated. This has happened time after time, relationship after relationship. I do not know what to do.

I am currently in a relationship and I have no attraction to the guy. I don’t know what to do. Please help me.

From LA

Dear Jil, you can’t base a relationship on physical attraction. It never lasts. You base it on values and character. Even if you date the most handsome man you’ll get used to it. And if you don’t want to date someone don’t date the person. It’s your life, it’s your choice.

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