Hello Mr. Alder. Â I never thought I’d be writing, but I’m glad I am. I write because Iâ€™m in dire need of a profound truth that can only come from deep analysis of life issues.
I am a 28-year-old female who has been trying to find my kind in Nigeria. I seek a highlyÂ intellectual and romantic man (I am Sapiosexual). Â But I find myself not finding one. Itâ€™s either he is arrogant, superficial or not it at all. I have never found a single man who has appealed to me. Itâ€™s either he is still finding himself, not mature enough, or sees himself as the ladies-man (Which is a total turn off) as I do not want to fight for someone’s attention.I’m an entrepreneur so my time is flexible. I know Iâ€™m kind of eccentric but perhaps attractive. I have been told it will take a highly intelligent, mature and not the average kind of Jack to be with me. I know this and I am scared to bits because there are few of such men in this part of the world.
Will I ever find a man for me? Tick tock, tick tock, timeâ€™s almost up. I don’t want to settle for just anyone. Society and family pressure aren’t making it easy for me. I know I need someone specialÂ but when will that be? I sincerely need answers.
The truth is you donâ€™t need men to want you, you just need one man. And since you say youâ€™re a Christian, just ask your Father to send you that one man. Then you wonâ€™t need to dissipate your energy on multiple dating. And God answers prayers. Ask HimÂ to make the path of that one man cross your path. When he does, youâ€™ll know what to do.