Today I want to share with you the paradox of capacities. One of the greatest paradoxes of life is that strengths are often weaknesses.
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You want to know what you should take into consideration in choosing a partner? Oh waoh! Let me share a parable with you.
I heard a story over the weekend and I thought to share it with you. It’s along the lines of our discussion. I think it takes us to the root of those issues we spoke about.
Let me share with you once more insight about the mystery of the woman. This is timely as you consider marriage. It’s important for you to gain a knowledge of the woman beyond social parameters, to know how to tap into her capacities.
I’m a bit concerned about some of the things I see going on. Seems our societal values are now so warped distortions are normative.
My dear Jack,
You’re a victim of Lagos Landlord Syndrome (LLS). It’s a term I coined for your situation. What’s LLS you ask? I’ll explain.
I know women draw up lists but knowing what I know about life, I smile at such gestures. Life is not a supermarket. We have our wishes no doubt, but life often has ideas that render lists redundant.
I’ll advise that you don’t tilt against the windmill. There are things you can’t alter. You have to find accommodation with them. The things that make a woman, a woman you can’t change!
It’s your girlfriend’s birthday in a week and you want advice from me on how to make it very special for her. You’ve come to the right source!
Yes, it does seem she’s rushing you, and before you know it you’re at the altar! *Laugh!* But seriously, it’s not really that. It’s just the makeup of women. How can I explain this to you now?