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My dear Jack, I think the problem your friend has is that he sees women as meretricious – cheap and tawdry. He has a commercial concept of women, sees women as objects of commerce. A commercial concept of women is why men use phrases like, “Left on the shelf.” Nothing could be more commercially graphic than such a phrase. In fact many of these paradigms are sexual. A marriage wholly based on sex won’t last. You soon get used to the sex. The adventurous type soon begins to look for other experiences, he begins to seek new varieties of women. Of course these things are hard to explain to a libidinous young man. His physical desire is so strong it short-circuits his neural network. He meditates so much on copulative possibilities he can’t even see the woman. He soon begins to imagine himself a “G,” not knowing he’s operating within a narrow paradigm that can’t hold up a marriage.

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My dear Jack, learn to say those two words, “I’m sorry.” When you’re wrong simply say, “I’m sorry.” Don’t try to give reasons for what you did. If you hurt your partner just say “I’m sorry.” And don’t try and sweep things under the carpet. People do that. They do that by trying to be nice instead of addressing the issue. You know you did wrong, address the issue, apologise, and ask for forgiveness. The more hurt you inflict the more you need to apologise, until the hurt is gone. Show remorse. You have to learn to treat people well. If you keep treating people anyhow you will create a lot of pain and hurt in your wake. Continue reading

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