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Tag Archives: Marriage

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My dear Jack, here’s the first question: Did your relationship improve or deteriorate during the lockdown? Continue reading


Dear Jack, yes, I saw the video you sent. If you know anything about marriage that video has to be very troubling. Continue reading

My dear Jack, you should aim for a fantastic relationship with your wife, your marriage shouldn’t be perfunctory, mechanical or humdrum. That’s terrible for a young marriage. Marriage ought to be fun. There ought to be happiness, or what’s the point! I’m assuming of course you guys love each other. A marriage doesn’t make sense without love. You’ll be locked up in a mechanical contraption with someone you have no affection for. Continue reading

My dear Jil, I present a few nuggets from my letters to you this year. Here they are:

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My dear Jack, I present a few nuggets from my letters to you this year. Here they are: Continue reading

Dear Jack, that’s actually a good question. Why marriage? It’s a question we tend not to bother asking. We all just assume marriage as a natural course of life. The truth though is that marriage is not for everybody, even if it seems like something humanity is besotted with.

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My dear Jil, from the content of your mail I think there are two major things you need to focus on: ambience and attractiveness. If you get those two things right your marriage should be okay. Let me break them down.

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My dear Jack, you don’t want to be deaf and blind in marriage. That’s a terrible state. If you’re blind in marriage you won’t see what’s happening around you. You won’t see pain, you won’t see frowns, you won’t see laughter, and you won’t see anger. And if you’re deaf in marriage you won’t listen to advice, neither will you listen to yearnings. In other words, if you’re deaf and blind in your marriage you lose visual and tonal sensitivity. Continue reading

My dear Jil, seems you want to eat your cake and have it. Keeping two lives on hold allows you to have it both ways while claiming you’re trying to choose. Flip the coin the other way and see how it works. What if a guy while dating you decides he now wants to decide between you and his ex, but the ex was not in the picture when you started your relationship. How will that feel? But that’s exactly what you’re trying to do to your boyfriend. Continue reading

My dear Jack, you see, when you warn a young man about these things he can’t fully appreciate the advice. These things I’m telling you will save your life, save you from misusing your life stream, save you from wasting your life on worthless pursuits. Continue reading

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