My dear Jack, you’re going to lose this lady. You’ll lose your girlfriend. You’re giving her cause for serious doubts about the feasibility of a future with you. The relationship is young. As it is it’s going to be short-lived. You’re close to the end and you can’t even see it. I don’t blame her uncle for campaigning against you. I’d do the same in his shoes given the facts and circumstances. You’re playing with the outcome of her life with your dedicated unseriousness. And you seem to have a funny philosophy of relationship. You believe your woman is supposed to take care of the consequences of the gaps and failings in your life. Unfortunately these are lazy gaps. They shouldn’t exist. And not at your age. You’re in your early thirties. You work hard when you’re young. Time flies. Continue reading
