All Letters

Dear Jack, I hope you get to read this before you leave for work! I’m going to suggest you do something unusual this morning!

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My dear Jil, this is the second draft of this letter. As you can therefore imagine, it is not exactly an easy subject to tackle.

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My dear Jil, I do appreciate your candour in acknowledging that you sometimes have sexual pressure as a woman. Denial creates its own pressure through false personal standards. Let me give you the male perspective on sex. You’ll find it most useful in relating to the opposite sex. I’m going to give you insight into the inner workings of a man’s mind as regards sex – show you the mechanics. You’ll understand why a guy professing undying love can suddenly drop you after consummation of his lust. You’ll also understand why a man will date a girl for so long, sleeping with her all along but go on to marry his preserved.
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Dear Jil,

You know that guy’s not good for you despite the rough appeal and sexual magnetism. He somehow reminds me of a bloke who dated a young woman I know. He appealed to parts of her many young men could not get to. (She’s the cerebral type). They could talk! The relationship was sometimes consummatorily proximate and she struggled with it. She struggled with her conscience, her faith, her upbringing. She didn’t want pre-marital sex. Inside her was a line drawn.

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Dear Jil,

Thank you for your mail but information management is a crucial issue in any relationship.

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Dear Jil,

I’m going to share some vital information with you this morning. I want to give you a man’s perspective on certain issues. You need that perspective to understand how a man feels in certain circumstances. Now, what you do with that information is up to you but I’ll empower you with the knowledge.

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My dear Jil,

One thing you can expect from me always is candour – honesty and truth. No syrup, no cream… just candour!

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Dear Jack,

I came across a shocking incident yesterday, the full narration of which will overwhelm this medium. Essentially though, a young man almost destroyed the electric power generator of his employer. You know what that means in Nigeria!

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My dear Jil,

Thank you for your reply. I’ll address the issues you raised in this letter. Hopefully I can pass on some wisdom.

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Dear Jack,

Thank you so much for your words of appreciation. I have been sharing with you from a very deep place and today, I’m going to be talking about faith.

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